Resources

Allender, Dr. Dan B. A WOUNDED HEART — HOPE FOR ADULT VICTIMS OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE (Colorado Springs, CO: NAVPRESS, 1995)

Dr. Allender exposes the rage, fear, and confusion locked deep inside every victim. Offering guidance in the midst of this confusion, he shows that there is hope for the wounded heart.

 

Brazell, Darrell. NEW HOPE FOR SEXUAL INTEGRITY (Lawrence, KS: Copyright 2012, www.newhope4si.com)

New Hope for Sexual Integrity, by Darrell Brazell, a Christian manual for those recovering from sexual addictions. This groundbreaking recovery manual provides insights gleaned from Scripture, a broad base of recovery literature, brain science and over eight years of working with individuals wrestling with lust, pornography, sexual bondage, and addiction.

New Hope for Sexual Integrity provides clear direction and proven recovery principles for individuals and groups. Darrell writes out of his own journey of recovery and uses many personal stories and applications to which most men can relate. He writes (and speaks) from the perspective of a new individual coming to him for help. Darrell addresses the core issues spiritually, behaviorally, and psychologically that are at the foundation of sexual bondage and addiction. Darrell is an author, teacher, and pastor of a local church. You can find many materials and resources on his Web site listed above, including his invaluable manual New Hope for Sexual Integrity.

 

Eldredge, John. WILD AT HEART (Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson, 2001)

This best-seller invites men to recover their masculine heart, defined in the image of a passionate God. Also see Wild At Heart Field Manual by the same author.

 

Hawkins, Diane. MULTIPLE IDENTITIES — UNDERSTANDING AND SUPPORTING THE SEVERELY ABUSED (Grottoes, VA: Restoration in Christ Ministries, 2009)

Designed to bring understanding and support to survivors of severe childhood sexual abuse — especially those who suffer from Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), as a result of sexual or ritual abuse.

 

Hundley, Shelley. A CRY FOR JUSTICE — THE FORGOTTEN FACE OF JESUS AS JUDGE AND ADVOCATE (Lake Mary, FL: Charisma House Book Group, 2011)

Hundley uses her story as a backdrop to show how she found healing from the pain, guilt, and shame of the abuse she endured as a child and how she came to know Jesus in a new way — as a righteous Judge who fights for His people and takes upon Himself the burden of our injustices and pain.

 

Lehman, Dr. Karl. THE IMMANUEL PROCESS (www.kclehman.com)

This is one of the most effective tools for dealing with trauma. Dr. Lehman is a board-certified psychiatrist who has developed an approach that leads people into healing prayer by connecting to Jesus Christ, who comes as “God with us.” (See: “Brain Science, Emotional Trauma, and The God Who is With Us~Part1” available on his site.)

 

Macgirvin, Jackie. ANGELS OF HUMILITY – A NOVEL (Shippensburg, PA: Destiny Image, 2011)

Look into the spirit realm where angels and demons interact with two average Christians, Paul and Sarah. By watching them you will understand what goes on in the unseen spiritual realm. If you do not realize you are caught in a spiritual battle, you are easy prey. What are the strategies and schemes of the enemy against you, and what weapons can you use to defeat them? How can you enforce the victory that Jesus has already provided for your defense?

 

Malarek, Victor. THE JOHNS: SEX FOR SALE AND THE MEN WHO BUY IT (New York: Arcade Publishing Inc., 2009)

Victor Malarek demonstrates that prostitution is a pandemic that is destroying more lives worldwide than ever before. An award-winning investigative journalist, Malarek has produced a sort of sequel, or companion, to 2004’s The Natashas, which examined the flourishing sex trade (and its adjunct, human trafficking) in post-Soviet Eastern Bloc countries. Here he looks at the “demand side”: the men who rent them. The resulting investigation of johns in Europe, Asia, North America, and Australia provides as disgusting a catalogue of venality, cruelty, and turpitude as you could imagine.

 

Malone, Dr. Henry. SHAME, IDENTITY THIEF (Irving, TX: Vision Life Publications, 2006)

“Shame told me that there was something fundamentally wrong with me and that everyone knew about it. I willingly accepted that I did wrong because somehow, I was wrong. I did not make a mistake; I was a mistake. Life then became a task to do rather than a journey to enjoy.”

 

Miles PhD, Glenn.

www.Love 146.org  — The abolition of child trafficking and exploitation. Nothing less.

Slavery is still one of the darkest stories on our planet. But for us, the hope of abolition is a reality. Love146 believes in helping grow the movement of abolition while providing effective, thoughtful solutions. We believe in the power of Love and its ability to effect sustainable change. Love is the foundation of our motivation. We were founded in 2002 as Justice for Children International.

www.themessageparlour.org — community outreach in the heart of the red light area 

 

Prince, Derek. EXPLAINING BLESSINGS AND CURSES (Kent, United Kingdom: Derek Prince Ministries – International, 1994)

Life’s trials and triumphs can seem accidental. One person may feel that life is a constant struggle in which pitfalls abound and someone seems out to get him. Another may feel that every day is a gift from God with special blessings just for her. That’s because forces are at work in our lives: the blessings of a loving God or the curses of our spiritual adversary. The message in this booklet can be of tremendous help to many people. It can change lives, communities, churches, and even nations.

 

Rivers, Francine. REDEEMING LOVE — A NOVEL (Colorado Springs, CO: Multnomah Books, 1997)

A powerful retelling of the book of Hosea, Redeeming Love is a life-changing story of God’s unconditional, redemptive, all-consuming love.

 

Roberts, Dr. Ted. PURE DESIRE (Ventura, CA: Regal Books, 1999)

Dealing with pornography and addictions, this book has an effective battle plan and strategy for dealing with sexual addiction. There is also a workbook designed for men to use in an accountability group.

 

Sorge, Bob. A COVENANT WITH MY EYES (Kansas City, MO: Oasis House, 2013)

Get ready for a bold call to sexual consecration like you’ve never read.   For men. For women. For young and old. See how making a covenant with your eyes stops temptation from gaining access to your mind and heart.

 

Wilder, Jim. LIVING WITH MEN (Pasadena, CA: Shepherd’s House Inc., 2004)

Living with Men combines the latest science and the oldest wisdom for training the control center in a man’s brain for relationships. Immature men create leadership, parenting and relational failures, leaving deep pain in children, couples, families, churches, communities, and themselves. Called a “life changing book”.

 

XXXchurch.com

Is your online resource to fight porn and sexual addiction.  XXXchurch offers addiction resources for men, women, parents, and couples highlighting awareness, prevention, and recovery. They feature weekly articles on how to conquer difficult issues, as well as porn accountability and filtering software. Free sexual addiction test. The #1 Christian porn site designed to bring awareness, openness and accountability to those affected by pornography.

 

XXXFold / Facebook.com

This site and ministry is dedicated to working with men who have found themselves caught in an addiction cycle that seems to be out of control and unmanageable. The first thing we want you to know is, you are not alone.

“…..Perhaps you stumbled upon this site in search of porn. Well, there is no porn here, but this very well could be your first step towards a porn-free life.”  Facebook.com/XXXFold

 

YouTube.com/The Power of Forgiveness by Royston Lim

This is a powerful video on the value of forgiveness. It is filled with truth about the difficulty of forgiveness, yet tells us: “When deep injury is done to us, we never recover until we forgive . . .  Forgiveness does not change the past, but it enlarges the future.”